NEVER INSULT YOUR CHILD BY COMPARISON
The way child is brought up can make large difference to child's
future.Loving a child is not all,but to realize the importance of
positive parenting.
This has often being seen that parents tends to compare their child
with the other may be his classmate,neighbor,relative etc who is of
his age.It may be related to studies,activities,choices,even i have
seen people comparing their children s' beauty with others.These
things create complexes sometime inferior and sometimes superior.If
ones child get good marks he /she should not be compared to the
other child who get lower marks.Just because child does well in
his/her exams doesn't mean he/ will be successful in future.Being
good in any activity can make a child do wonders and can build her
self confidence.Parents should pay attention to not only focus on
child's exam result but should teach him to look at a larger
picture.
It should always be kept in mind that never feel embarrass if he
make mistakes in front of others.Just try to ignore it and make him
feel comfortable.As parents often do such mistakes when they feel
embarrass in front of others they make their child feel guilty by
comparing with the other as "have you ever seen their child doing
such things?"
Give full space to your child for development instead making him
feel inferior in any case.Always boost him up by encouraging
whatever good he does and see the wonders!!!!!!!
